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Today I finally stepped out!
Today I opened my window. Nobody warns you when you’re diagnosed with depression, or any other mental illness, how difficult some small tasks can be. Watering the plants is draining when you don’t have the motivation to keep yourself alive. Cooking a meal is a chore you don’t have energy for when you’d rather lay […]
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Maybe all you need is you!
Maybe you don’t need a reinvention. Maybe you don’t need to change your life. Maybe you are not seven steps, a move, a job, a goal, a relationship away from the person you’re meant to be. Maybe you’re not being held back by what you don’t have, but by not appreciating what you already do. […]
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Reasons why I love you!
If I could describe all the reasons why I love you, I would be sad. I would be sad because I don’t want to know them all. There are reasons that are fine and can only be understood by those observing our love. There are reasons that come up in my dreams. There are reasons […]
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What was it?
The first thing you should know about me is that I’m an extremely anal packer. I spent the better part of a day planning and organizing and neatly folding my clothes so that I could travel light, with just my small pink carry on. Two people at the airport, upon discovering I was going to […]
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Citylights!
You would assume a normal night routine for a high school student consists of homework, showering, shutting your light, closing your blinds, and going to sleep. Not me. When I lived at home, every night, around 11 p.m., my mother walked into my room to say goodnight and attempted to close my window shades. I […]
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Why cheat?
Are you wondering how to let go of someone you love after infidelity, after that certain someone has had an affair? Do you still love your person but are you unsure if you want to stay or let go of them in light of what they have done? Are you super confused and overwhelmed and […]
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I hope the next guy loves you better!
I didn’t know how to tell you that I was no longer in love with you. I didn’t want to break your heart. So, I ended it with you. It was easier breaking mine than putting you through it. Your heart is so pure and innocent, and mine is so cold. I have felt heartbreak […]
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New year, new opportunities!
In the new year, try not to stick to a timeline. It’s healthy to set goals for yourself — but don’t beat yourself up when you aren’t able to accomplish them as quickly as you hoped. Don’t feel like a failure when your journey is taking a little bit longer than you originally planned. Remember, […]
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You don’t love me back?
(Written by Anchal) I may have hurt youbut trust me i was just trying to hide the fact like i have hella feelings for you.I couldn’t look you in the eyebecause i was trying to hide the fear of losing you even when youre not mine.i chose not to say a word when you lleftbecause […]
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You are still alive!
I tell stories about you all the time. Sometimes, I remember to use the past tense — that was your favorite drink, that was the song you loved to dance to, that was the type of car you drove. But sometimes, it slips my mind and I speak in present tense. I still refer to your house as your house, even though […]
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Sometimes, all you need is a little break!
Even though you might feel like you cannot afford to rest, even though there is a lot of pressure being put on you, even though you want to spend your time making productive leaps toward your dreams, you cannot keep moving until you collapse. You are allowed to slow down. You are allowed to take […]
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Choose me everyday or don’t choose me at all!
I am not the kind of guy who can ever be with you knowing that I’m simply an option. I’m a priority. Important. Not just a choice, but your first choice. I give a love that I expect to have reciprocated and if I don’t see it coming my way, I don’t see the point. Which is why to […]
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To that version of myself that I failed to find a long time ago!
Do you ever want better? To feel good, comfortable in your own skin, taken back by your self-worth, confident in knowing you are growing into the person you always imagined yourself to be. Better knowing that you are real, you are alive, you are you, and that’s okay, it’s enough. Diving head first into your […]
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Believe me – You will be happy again!
How much does it really mean to hear someone say you will be happy again when you are in the throes of total misery? It always feels like an empty promise that brighter days are ahead when you can’t even remember the last time you even felt okay. There’s probably a small part of you […]
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Without pain … there is no joy!
(Merry Christmas) In a world inundated by chaos and pain, faith and optimism can seem unsustainable. But there is one major and often overlooked silver lining to all the dread we’ve grown accustomed to. And that is simply the reminder that a light cannot exist without its shadow, just as dawn cannot shimmer over the […]
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Your happiness is what it costs!
(Written by Meera Botadra) Your happiness is what it costs!! If you don’t know sweetheart, let me just make it clear to you that your happiness is what it costs to my existence. Your happy face is the reason of thrill in my heart and ecstasy of others.You matter to me darling, just like credulous […]
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How to let go off things that no longer serve you!
Throughout our lives, we are constantly growing and evolving. We are constantly shifting and changing through our experiences, while constantly learning more about who we are and who it is we ultimately want to become. However, in doing so, there will inevitably be things and people that once served us that now don’t align with […]
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When you don’t need them but you want them!
Need is often viewed as a negative feeling. To tell someone we need them is to place too much responsibility on their shoulders. To tell someone we need them is to give them too much power over us. When we think we need a person in order to be happy, to survive, is it really […]
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Instead of satisfying your ego, make a deal with it!
Let’s start with the fact that your Ego is highly overprotective – destined to keep you safe, dull, and cautious. Its sense of control is contagious. It will do anything to sabotage your happiness, good mood, and kill your positive vibes every time you give in. It’s by nature louder and has a persuasive tone. Because it will call upon an egocentric […]
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If you’re not uncomfortable, you aren’t doing it right!
According to psychological research, putting yourself in new and unfamiliar situations triggers a unique part of the brain that releases dopamine, nature’s make-you-happy chemical. This unique region of the brain is only activated when we see or experience completely new things. In other words: we only grow when we seek the unfamiliar, the unknown, the uncomfortable. […]
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You’re the writer of your own story!
(Dedicated to someone special <3)You were not born into this world to fit the missing piece of someone else’s puzzle. You did not arrive in this life for someone to write your life story and sit back and watch how the story ends. You are here to shake shit up. You exist to add your […]
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What happens when you listen to your soul and not the society!
Who would you be if you could shut out the opinions and judgements of the world? If you were truly comfortable in your own skin? How would you live if social media didn’t exist? If you only lived by your own standards? Oh wait, you can. I was born with a spirit that was free, rebellious, […]
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The unedited truth about finding happiness!
You see, one day—whether that being in a couple of weeks or a few months or even years—you are going to come to the realization that happiness will never be found within your job. It will never be found in how much money you make or how big your house is or in having the […]
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Picture perfect!
(Written by Jhalak) Follow her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/__stubbornnnn/ Next blog will be out soon.Please share this blog, like it and comment what you feel about it! Desai Thoughts MEdia. Follow me on instagram for more!https://www.instagram.com/desaid3__/
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No matter what you are going through, remember you’re worthy!
(Hey readers, this is my 150th post… Please like and share) The cognitive ability to express complex emotions and experience deep feelings is something very unique to human beings and can be considered what sets us apart from not only other organisms on Earth but also technological artificial intelligence. With such a concept that is […]
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Untold Words!
(Written by Anchal) Hey you,I always wonder if you miss me or not, if you ever think about me or not. You did not tell me if you ever loved me or not. I still feel you had feelings for me. But I have no answer to the ultimate tragic question that “Where did those […]
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Silence is the best revenge!
I know you want to write out a long, elaborate text explaining exactly why you’re upset with this other person. I know you want to show up at their door, screaming about how you cannot believe what they’ve done to you. I know you want to slash their tires, toss a drink at their face, […]
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Forget being happy, learn to be free!
Somewhere inside our brains, we are hardwired to believe that happiness is some beautiful destination. We think that it’s right around the corner, and our whole lives are dedicated to finally arriving there. Happiness comes right after our next promotion, that new car we’ve been saving up for, or that pretty engagement ring on our finger. […]
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Good men do exist!
(Based on a true story) As someone who grew up with all the male friendships ending with hurt, my faith in men was dwindling. I remember when I first saw you at work. In all honesty, with your blonde hair, blue eyes, and t-shirt with the logo from Marvel, I pegged you as a jerk. […]
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Is it my fault?
(Written by Anchal) Is it my fault that I am a girl? Is it my fault that I want to be successful? Is it my fault that I need a tutor? Is it my fault that the best tutor was a male? Is it my fault that I hate all the men because of 1 […]
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How traveling helps really!
It is a fact that most of us will stay in one place for the rest of our lives. Some of us never leave the town we grew up in nor are we really exposed to a diverse community. What happens then is that the world is small to you and you are isolated and […]
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I will remember how you made me feel!
Weightless. That’s how you made me feel on the good days. I felt as if I was walking on air, each step lifting me higher than before. Nothing held me down, nothing limited my potential. You saw my potential as greater than I did, perhaps even greater than it really was. I shone from the […]
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Art by Janhavi.
(Artwork by Janhavi Mane) Artwork by Janhavi ManeYou can follow her on Instagram at :https://www.instagram.com/jaanhavvii_/ Her art page on Instagram is :https://www.instagram.com/artby.janhavi/
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Girls will be girls!
Historically, we’ve pushed women into a matriarchal box that typically presumed women were made for the sole purpose of procreation. Labels assumed onto women were the opposition of parental and embryonic while men were attributed with primal strength and maturity. When in all actuality, all four descriptions can be accurate for both genders. Both genders can feel the desire to become a parent […]
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Life!
(Written by anonymous) LIFE To read “LIFE” may just seem to be a collection of letters more precisely just “4” letters, but these “4 letters” come along with a lot of meaning to it. It is a whole lot of a roller coaster ride wherein we face a lot of ups and downs, highs and […]
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This too shall pass!
(Written by Jhalak) why to overthink a situation? why to harm yourself? why to cry over a failed relationship? why to have sex for your frustration? why to get an addiction of smoking and liquor? apparently the “WHY” list won’t stop but you can cheer yourself by remembering the fisrt time; when your childhood friend […]
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All I need is peace!
(Written by Anchal) Idk what am I feeling rn, but Ik something’s not good inside me. I’m feeling like I’ve lost a piece of myself. The piece that wasn’t so important for my survival but I still feel blank, like really blank. My body is resisting good hormones, like totally. I’ve never been like this. […]
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That casanova shit ain’t love!
I’m not an expert on love, but I will tell you I have experienced many moments in my life that can only be described as being fueled by another person by the purest form of love that can possibly exist in their hearts for me. If you will humor me, I am going to use that […]
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Why?
(Written by a friend who didn’t wish to be named) Why do you want to kiss me? Is it so you can take me back to your apartment and pretend to care about my side of the conversation while secretly calculating how much longer until it’s appropriate to place your hand on my thigh, to […]
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Call it anything but not love!
(Written by Anchal) Follow her on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/voicesinnmyyhead/ Next blog will be out soon.Please share this blog, like it and comment what you feel about it! Desai Thoughts MEdia. Follow me on instagram for more!https://www.instagram.com/desaid3__/
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It takes strength to block them!
It takes strength to block their number because it is more than an action. It is a symbol of goodbye. It represents you choosing to rise above your heartbreak. You deciding that you deserve more than what they put you through. You admitting that there is no reason to run back to your past because […]
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You don’t know me!
(Written by Anchal) Do you ever see me the way i see you, or do you ever just see me? Did you even notice that I exist? If not, I will tell you… Hey, I’m someone who’s always been looking at you, looking for you regardless of where I am and who I’m with because […]
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An open letter to her new boyfriend.
She’s moved on, and I’m not going to lie, it hurt me more than I thought it would. Am I listening to Darshan Rawal’s songs every day? Yes, but I’m happy for her. For nine months, it was me she kept coming back to, and for nine months, it was me who kept pushing her away. […]
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Because I have sex on the first date, it doesn’t mean I don’t have feelings.
Sex is a very uncommon conversation topic in our society. There’s no wonder—it’s fun, exciting, romantic, ground-shaking, and so much more. It can be intimate, creating a special and unbreakable bond between two lovers, but it can also be an adventure, leading to discovering your wants and needs and everything in between. Many people choose […]
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Our tryst with COVID!
Chances are, you’ve had to bend a lot this year. You’ve had to curve your plans, adjust your life, twist your outlook, embrace detours, and turn new corners. So, have you given yourself credit for not breaking? This year has forced us to change the way we live, the way we think, and how we […]
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Girl, I got you!
Sometimes we get stuck in a rut and we need some encouragement. This one’s for you. To the girl who feels invisible, understand that you’re not. Understand that someone’s lack of seeing you doesn’t mean you don’t exist. Understand that sometimes the people we think know us best, simply don’t know us at all. Understand […]
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How to ruin your life without even noticing it!
Understand that life is not a straight line. Life is not a set timeline of milestones. It is okay if you don’t finish school, get married, find a job that supports you, have a family, make money, and live comfortably all by this age, or that age. It’s okay if you do, as long as you […]
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Show off!
Do not hide your girlfriend away in your bedroom. Do not take her for fast food on date nights and drive her straight back to your bedroom instead of sitting down in restaurants where you risk being seen by other people. Do not avoid being seen with her in public because you are trying to […]
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That one friend who you never need to leave.
(Dedicated to Yashvi & Dhruhi) Next blog will be out soon.Please share this blog, like it and comment what you feel about it! Desai Thoughts MEdia. Follow me on instagram for more!https://www.instagram.com/desaid3__/
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I’m not lost… I’m just enjoying the journey!
It was so important for me to know. It is just not the case anymore. When I was a little girl, I had a destination to get to. I had a timeline for what I wanted to achieve in my life. My dream was to get a graduate degree and get a high-paying job so […]
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It’s your fault.
I need you to do me a favor. I need you to reflect on all the times our conversation became stale after I had been bubbling with excitement. I want you to reminisce all the times you ignored me for weeks or months and came back like nothing happened. Think long and hard about the […]
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Heartbreak : A Love Story
(My tryst with FICTION again) Most love stories end in a proposal; this one begins with one. It felt as if I were in a dream. It was a nightmare. As I stared at the diamond ring in his hands, there was a sinking feeling in my gut and my skin squirmed around on my […]
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It’s time to rebuild yourself!
I’ve always hated being vulnerable, whether that is people seeing me cry or just sharing my problems. But the older I get, the more I realize it’s not that I hated being vulnerable but that I was scared of it. I have always been the fixer, the one who will stay up listening to people’s […]
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The unnoticed unsung heroes!
(Managed to get this article courtesy some teachers) I haven’t been a part of the college system for nearly a year, but I definitely haven’t forgotten my time spent in the classroom. I adored what I did, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t see the teachers around me struggling not to collapse under […]
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Why female friendships help you?
I call myself a Feminist because I’m one, and I’m ready for all the criticism building up in your head, from the moment you read the title, because I’m really being an asshole discriminating against men. But well, I’m just going to talk about my personal experiences, and I strongly believe, that despite fighting for […]
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Social Media Mafia.
We live in a world of likes, a world where hearts and double-taps justify our stories, and a specific number of likes per post can confirm our appeal. Similarly, we’ve been groomed by social media to believe our follower count equates to our worth in the digital landscape. I’ve never prided myself in having a huge follower count […]
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Maybe.
Maybe one day we could sit and talk about all the things that got broken between us. We could talk about how each one of us hurt the other. Maybe we could say all the things we couldn’t say to each other before. Maybe we could share how each one of us made the other feel. […]
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The void.
I am learning that there is nothing to miss but your absence. I have to love you from a distance because you were never meant to be mine. I am learning that nostalgia from missing you doesn’t mean I want you back. As much as I wished you could have mine, you had to leave […]
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I should have stayed.
I know what I said. I said that I don’t know what I feel. That it’s too much for me to handle. And that I don’t want you in my life. Yet you didn’t let me go. You were there for me regardless of how hard I pushed you away. You stayed put and fought […]
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He is an asshole.
He’s not your almost boyfriend, not even your recently found or made bestfriend. He’s just an asshole who picks and chooses when he wants to acknowledge your existence. He glances at your texts and ignores them for weeks, then lays the flirting on thick when he actually decides to answer you because he doesn’t want […]
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Different people, Different Journeys!
You are exactly where you are meant to be, and I don’t just mean figuratively. I mean that the place that you are sitting, the air that you are breathing, and the life that you are living. This is meant for you, and you are not behind or late or in the wrong place. You […]
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She was meant to leave.
Some people aren’t meant to stay in your life after a certain point. Some people are meant to leave by a certain date because that’s when their lesson is due. That’s when they teach you something new or the same old lesson that you’ve been resisting. The same lesson you don’t want to learn. Some […]
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Cards & Craft.
(Artwork by Rajvee Dedhia) Artwork by Rajvee DedhiaYou can follow her on Instagram at :https://www.instagram.com/rxjveeeee/ Her art page on Instagram is :https://www.instagram.com/cards.and.craft/
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The girl who was like sunshine.
She was a glimpse of sunshine peeking behind the clouds on a cool fall day, not enough to create lasting heat, but enough to make you smile and pause as the warmth spread across your face. People knew she was not brave enough to stay, so they cherished the times she would appear with the […]
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Show your intentions.
No, I’m not talking about the popular Justin Bieber song that has been on repeat for the past few years. I’m talking about one’s intentions. What exactly are intentions? A word so simple yet many still have it confused and are unable to decipher what it truly means. “Be genuine with your intentions,” a phrase […]
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I wish you could see yourself like I see you.
Has anyone ever taken the time to tell you that you are goddamn beautiful? Can I take a minute to say that you have a smile that can blow up a room like lightning in a rainstorm? You are magnetic, and anyone that gets near you is drawn to your absolute loveliness. I am so enamored by […]
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If everything sucks rn, read this.
Sometimes everything sucks. It just does. You’re exhausted. You’re stressed. You’re down on yourself and you’re down on everyone else and nothing you’ve done has made you feel proud or excited or enthusiastic or even anything. Your greatest accomplishment has been emptying out your Netflix queue. Everything you write sucks. Everything you do sucks. You’ve resigned yourself […]
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My Mind Has Asthma
(Written by Hatvik Vora) My mind needs room to thinkIt is breathing heavilyIt feels like I’m on the brinkEdges call meTo trip over and fallDon’t have the gutsOr I would’ve done it for sureIt’s boxed inMy mindThere’s no room to breatheIt needs fresh airDevoid of straitsNeeds a seaTo go on an open voyageLike a sailorCommand […]
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I understand.
You were not looking for anything serious and yet you found yourself wondering if you were ready to feel something deep and meaningful again. You were only looking to get a fun night out of it. But when I shared my story with you, you started thinking that this could mean more than just a […]
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Cards & Craft.
(Artwork by Rajvee Dedhia) Artwork by Rajvee DedhiaYou can follow her on Instagram at :https://www.instagram.com/rxjveeeee/ Her art page on Instagram is :https://www.instagram.com/cards.and.craft/
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Why are people with trust issues hard to be with.
People with trust issues didn’t choose to be this way. They didn’t really have a say when they were abandoned by one of their parents or when their best friend betrayed them or when the love of their life cheated on them. They didn’t choose these stories for themselves but they had to deal with […]
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Best thing about 2020.
This year has been nothing short of shocking. Everything as we know it changed and we’re all still trying to figure out how to handle it or how to adapt to the ‘new normal.’ But aside from everything, this year has also been eye-opening in plenty of ways. It has revealed a lot of truths […]
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Shine despite the darkness.
Don’t let it make you forget. Don’t let it consume you when it overwhelms you. No matter how dark the world gets, it can never steal your light. That untapped yellow light within your heart? No matter how dim the darkness makes it seem, it can never completely fade away. As long as there is breath in your lungs, […]
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Goodbye.
This is me saying goodbye to modern dating; this is me saying goodbye to that rush of adrenaline when someone decides to swipe right on my perfectly selected photographs, this is me saying goodbye to awful chat-up lines, sleazy intro messages and small talk about what I do for a living. This is me saying […]
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Cards & Craft.
(Artwork by Rajvee Dedhia) Artwork by Rajvee DedhiaYou can follow her on Instagram at :https://www.instagram.com/rxjveeeee/ Her art page on Instagram is :https://www.instagram.com/cards.and.craft/
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COURAGE CAN QUELL DESPAIR
EVERY TINY THING IN LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLEWHERE EVERY HUMAN BEING IS MORTALWHERE EVERYTHING IS ADVERSE AND HARDBUT REMEMBER YOU YOURSELF ARE YOUR OWN GUARDWHERE EVERYONE IS GRASPINGBUT YOU HAVE TO FIND THE ONE WHO IS LASTINGLIFE, WHERE HEARTS ARE CRASHINGBUT SOME PEOPLE ARE TRYINGFOR SOME ITS IMPOSSIBLE FOR DAYS TO ELAPSEWHERE SOME ARE UNFORTUNATE TO […]
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#SuperMaa
(Written by Hatvik Vora) oh hey it’s quarantine periodlet’s see what’s new in our households !Maa is now the managerdad does the dishes but he always has to hear“isme se aadhe bartan to vaapas dhone padege”us kids do the jhaadu pocha but we always have to hear“ye aur vo corner me kittni dhool hai”mom fills […]
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Love is scary but we do it anyways.
Love is scary, but we do it anyway. We do it because we have beating hearts that are made to do exactly what we are afraid of. We do it because we are created to follow our fear, we are designed to look at it, unravel it, make friends with it, and then take it […]
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Love me fully or don’t love me at all.
Please love me fully or don’t love me at all. I don’t need you to love me half-heartedly, because you will only give me the illusion that you are here to stay. Save me the pain and heartache if you don’t have the space to hold my love. Do yourself a favor and don’t fool […]
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Cards & Craft.
(Artwork by Rajvee Dedhia) Artwork by Rajvee DedhiaYou can follow her on Instagram at :https://www.instagram.com/rxjveeeee/ Her art page on Instagram is :https://www.instagram.com/cards.and.craft/
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If I showed you my demons, will you stay?
Understanding and supporting your partner is an essential fact for a relationship to survive.They are scary, they are numbing, and they are real. So would you stay? If I told you about my past, my demons, and my darkness, would you do it? Would you love me anyway? Would you stay? This is the question […]
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A reminder for you to leave the girl who can’t commit to you!
The most frustrating thing about dating is when you meet a girl who tells you all the beautiful adjectives that she knows of, but still makes you doubt if the words that are coming out of her lips are true. You find it hard to believe that a girl, who looks like someone from a […]
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Memories.
(Written by Rajvee Dedhia) You can make me or break meBy offering counselling without any fee.Be there right in front of my eyes,As i keep thinking and time flies.Moments so sweet when we made them,All of those memories shinier than any gem.Now here i am wondering what went wrong,This pain cannot be healed by any […]
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Where are you lost?
(Written by Hatvik Vora) hey man ..where are you lostbetween the trains and the ever hustling journey to survive have you forgotten where your peace lies?hey man, where are you lostamong the thousand choices you make daily have you really forgotten what you really wish for?hey man where are you lostpleading from the bottom of […]
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Turning 22!
(Written by Ketan Thube) Oh no, I’m twenty twoAnd still single, what do i do?Why can’t I find a man?This wasn’t the society’s plan.Is my skin too dark?Or do I not have that spark?Are my hips too broad?Or is it because I’m not awed?Why won’t I find a man?I wonder, every single timeIs it because […]
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Bas teri haa chahiye!
(Written by Ketan Thube) Na daulat ki lat haiNa heero ki khaan chahiyeNa mehel ki khwaishNa taaro bhara aasmaan chahiyeKehdi hai tumse apne dil ki baatBas teri haa chahiye Mere haato mein tera hath chahiyeHar kadam par tera sath chahiyePyaar bhari baatein karenge chaarBas wo haseen mulaqaat chahiyeBahot bhatka hai ye dil becharaIse ab panaah […]
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How does it feel to be cheated.
Meeting that person who gives you the attention that you’ve been longing for is very invigorating. The world seems brighter and the atmosphere seems charged with positive vibes. The air seems fresher and there’s more energy flowing through you. You even seem to have an extra pep in your step, all because this person is filling up your love tank that once […]
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Moral Support
(Written by Rajvee Dedhia) Moral support is the basic mental health issue in people. When the efforts are not appreciated people tend to doubt themselves and even stop pursuing it any further.Physical support might be provided by literally anyone in the contact circle.However, moral support although provided in huge amounts does not matter unless it is […]
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Humanity or Religion?
(Written by Hatvik Vora) Are they so blinded by religion they don’t see any humanity ? Have their beliefs turned into the absolute need to hope for better while doing nothing to make it better? Has their faith turned into the reason for chaos in their minds? While deciding which God to pray, shouldn’t people […]
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Love yourself more than loving them.
One of the hardest things you may ever have to face in life will be the decision to either stay in a broken relationship or to walk away. To look at the person you once thought you would be blissfully happy with until the end of time and admit to yourself and everyone around you […]
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Those were the days.
(Written by Hatvik Vora) Remembering those daysWhen I dozed off in class and had to suddenly wake up when my friend pinched because he knew the teacher was coming close.When there a gossip going around which I wasn’t part of and I wanted to know so badly about it.When it was a break and we […]
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Believe in God.
Nobody likes beautiful things to end. We want to hold on to people, places, and memories that we love for as long as we can. We want to keep them in our lives forever. We do our best not to lose them. We fear change because we prefer everything to stay exactly the same. But […]
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Love & Telescopes.
Falling in love is moving your eyes from the end of a telescope to their face, but their eyes are already on you, watching you take in the night sky. Falling in love is driving through the forest at night with the wind in your hair and their hand resting on your leg and you […]
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An over thinker’s relationship
“I let you see the parts of me that weren’t all that pretty and with every touch you fixed them. Now you’ve been talking in your sleep. Things you never say to me. Tell me that you’ve had enough…I’m sorry I don’t understand where all of this is coming from, I thought that we were […]
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The beauty of heartbreaks.
When you’re deep in the midst of heartbreak, chances are that you feel pain somewhere in your body, probably in your chest or your stomach.It’s as if the heart’s accelerator and brakes are pushed simultaneously and those conflicting actions crash and create the sensation of heartbreak. But I’m here to tell you this: You are […]
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Desi Love.
Have you ever heard of the phrase “Muslims don’t date, they marry”? It’s a peculiar sentiment that is often used to vaguely grasp the understandings of a culture not quite in your reach and an outline on how your love life sounds like it should play out. Yet it sounds sudden. It implies no initial […]
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Life …. …. calling.
Most of us are not prepared for the responsibility of creating our lives, so we pretend that we don’t have it at all. We pretend that we are leaves in the wind, that we are victims of circumstance instead of victors of vicissitudes. We blame the nature of life for our misfortunes instead of stepping into […]
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That one friend.
As human beings, it is the inevitable truth that people will be in and out of our lives. As we grow as individuals, who we associate ourselves with constantly evolves. Who we keep around becomes based off our shared interests, time spent together, and what characteristics we find valuable in individuals. During this evolution, casualties […]
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These days, I think of you.
He was so very in love with you. He thought you hung the moon. He thought you loved him to the stars and the moon and back. And you did. Oh, how you did. Then, one day, he’d let fear outweigh his love and leave you. You’d be speechless. Lost. Broken. Eventually, however, you’d move […]
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I wasn’t enough for you to want me.
We had some really wonderful times together. The memories of the things we did together are there, and I still have the photographs of our adventures, and so many cute, romantic moments. But I can’t remember what they felt like. It’s been mere months since the day I left, and I honestly cannot remember how it […]
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A Love Letter that I never got to send.
To the girl I loved, I loved you so much it hurts. We’re so young and we have so much life ahead of us that it hurts knowing that there might be a day that you’re not in my life anymore, and I know that nothing lasts forever, but I hope like hell that you’re my […]
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Never Settle.
The truth is it will always feel like something is missing. Something is incomplete. You’re not the best version of yourself. You don’t look at yourself in the mirror and feel proud. You know that you’re capable of so much more and you know that at the end of the day, this is not what […]
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This is how you lose her.
You lose her when you make her feel like an option when all she ever did was make you a priority. You lose her when you keep her at arm’s length when all she’s ever done is choose you. You lose her a little more every time that you confuse her and draw lines that […]
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Dear Society, women don’t need to dress modestly to avoid rapes.
Reducing the complexity of a woman to her body or equating her character to the way she dresses has been a damaging way to deny women their humanity and to victim-shame survivors of sexual assault and rape. In public schools, young girls across the country have been kicked out of proms and suspended from school […]
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Everything, all along, was planned.
Making mistakes is a huge part of life. Everyone we know, even and especially the wisest people you’ve ever met, have made mistakes in their lifetimes. It’s hard to accept. On a personal level, I lie awake at night thinking about mistakes I’ve made. It can lead to insomnia, anxiety, and continuous stress, leading to […]
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Instagram
(Based on a true incident, narrated by an influencer)You don’t have to be a supermodel to relate to today’s problems. Social media. The internet. Modern technology. What is that famous line? With great power comes great responsibility. And despite the past tragedies of the human race, it remains crystal clear that we choose to ignore […]
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It’s time to stop apologizing for your emotions!
In life, we are constantly met with new obstacles. Often it feels like once you’ve gotten over one hurdle, you are instantly met with something new. A new challenge that fills you with new thoughts, new doubts, and new emotions that you now have to release. And like many of us, you might tell yourself […]
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The uninvited guest!
It is something that one rarely talks about.Not a perfect topic for a party gossipnor fitting for a celebrity tabloid.Yet it’s something everyone feels once in a lifetime—Some occasionally, while others for a much longer time.It’s like a weight you can’t take off your chest.It feels like not giving your very best.Every little chore, no […]
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Apology vs Actions!
If someone apologizes for treating you poorly and then goes right back to treating you the same exact way, their apology doesn’t count. It’s meaningless. It isn’t an indication of their maturity. Real maturity means recognizing your flaws and putting effort into correcting them. Don’t feel guilty for walking away from someone who regrets hurting […]
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Imagine you actually getting punished!
Trigger warning: This article contains sensitive content involving sexual assault.Imagine a world where it’s not okay. Envision a world where it doesn’t make sense. Play pretend and in this pretend, take away all the ways you’ve made this make sense. Take away all the rationalizations, all the things he’s said to make it ok. Fill […]
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What you actually mean to me!
I think sometimes we are convinced if we can see the ending of something before it begins that we’ll wish it had never began in the first place. That if we knew something was going to fall apart, or drift away from us, that we would never ask it into our lives. That we would […]
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Own your mistakes!
Sometimes you might not be there for people who need you. Sometimes you might say the wrong things at the wrong times. Sometimes you might hurt people unintentionally. Sometimes you might lose your temper. Sometimes you might say awful things that you might not be able to take back afterward. Sometimes you might do the […]
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This is the kind of person worth falling for!
The kind of person that’s worth falling in love with is someone who more than just a 1 a.m. hookup, more than just a gaze across the room, more than just a few messages peppered through the weekend, more certainty than indecision, more answers than questions. The kind of person that’s worth falling in love […]
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Finding purpose!
There’s a popular yet misleading quote about meaningful work that says, “find your purpose, and you will never have to work a day in your life.” The phrase implies if you love your work, it won’t feel like work. Sounds appealing and like something to strive for, but if you have actually found your purpose, […]
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The truth is, everyone eventually moves on!
Today I mustered up the courage to watch one of our favorite Netflix shows that we never finished. To be honest, I thought this day would never come. I still remember sitting in my room eight months ago, sobbing and writing a letter to you in which I mentioned how I would no longer be […]
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You were mine!
I am beginning to understand that loving you was more painful than leaving you. As I’m shedding the skin that you molded so perfectly for me, I realize I was never happy with you. In hindsight, I was only settling for ambivalence and mediocrity. I was blindly searching for love in all the wrong places. […]
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3 am!
It’s 3 am and my phone dings. My heart lurches in my throat and I curse myself for not having it on silent. Not because it woke me up, but because I already know it’s her. I know that it’s her and that my fingers will betray me, just like they do every night. This […]
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I love you
It’s not because I’m scared. It’s not that I’m unsure. It’s not because I abide by old traditions of the male saying so first. I want to wait to say I love you because I don’t want to do it without you. I love you because you’re sweet. Genuinely. The type of woman who opens […]
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Mental Health Awareness
I cannot speak for others, as this battle is different for each person. What I can describe is my own experience in the hopes that my testimony could help another struggling soul. For three years, I have suffered and battled with Borderline Personality Disorder and Major Depression (diagnosed). Little did I know that for several […]
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Being lonely
Drowning is one of the scariest concepts to me. To reach up and up and up as you feel yourself running out of air. That was me and as I approached 20. I found myself succumbing to the waves, allowing them to take me over. I decided that maybe this was just my fate—thank God […]
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Who was she?
CONTENT WARNING!ONLY 18+ Since starting out on blogs and quotes, I had stopped posting stories which was my main USPGetting back to my old loveLet me know how did it work?(Purely Fictional) It doesn’t take a Degree in Sociology to know online dating is a pretty normal concept these days. What was once seen as […]
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I matched a guy on OKC who doesn’t exi….
(Based on a true story) I hate dating apps. I refused to use them for the first — but I’m getting older and I’m getting less interested in the club scene, so it’s going to be hard to meet someone out in public. Not to mention the whole quarantine situation. A few weeks ago, I […]
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You are not allowed to text her!
I know you want to text her. Yes, her, the one you thought about as soon as you read the headline. You think about doing it all the time. You think about getting drunk just to use it as an excuse to contact her. But there is a reason you are not speaking right now. […]
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Is opening up worth it?
Opening up can seem terrifying, daunting. When you begin, it can taste like a sour pill, hard to taste and swallow. You fight it at first, avoid it all costs, but deep down you know it’s necessary. One day, you begin. Slowly. It might take a few tries. But each time, each day, it gets […]
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You are gonna miss her!
She’s been around so often you’ve taken it for granted a bit. You think no matter what you say or do, she’ll be there because she always has been. The average person wouldn’t have tolerated any of this for as long as she has. But the thing is she’s different. Her strength comes in the […]
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I am done!
I am done going above and beyond and getting left behind. I am done finding broken women who need me to fix them and then drain me of my energy and walk away with my heart. I am done getting broken promises from women who claim to be honest and loyal but walk away as […]
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Maybe, in another universe, I deserve you!
What if, in another universe, I deserve you? Hear me out. There’s this philosopher from the 1890s named William James, and he coined this theory about “the multiverse” which suggests that a hypothetical set of multiple universes comprises everything that can possibly exist simultaneously. Are you following? The entirety of space, time, matter and energy […]
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Toxic, eh?
The phrase “toxic” is everywhere now as the new buzzword for anyone we don’t like or get along with. It’s often used as a vague excuse to write people off for any reason deemed valid to us in the moment and feel no guilt. However, there’s a big difference between real toxicity and people who […]
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People once gone away are no longer ours!
It’s probably happened to you before. You ran into your ex partner at a cafe, one that is closest to you but furthest from their house. Or you’ve had a look at their new partner who strikes a similar resemblance to… you? Most people may bring these small occurrences down to coincidence. But I am […]
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Happy Birthday!
The first moment I laid my eyes on this girl, I knew that there was something wrong. She had a sad look on her face and never seemed to look up.At that moment, I knew that something was going on. But I didn’t mind her, thinking that I’d be getting into business that wasn’t my […]
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The girl I know vs the girl who is always misunderstood
(Dedicated to my friend who needs to know she’s the best!) Kind women are not dumb. They’re not naive. They see what others see. They know who’s fake and who’s genuine. They know who cares and who is just pretending. They know who is taking them for granted and who appreciates their kindness. They know […]
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The Art of Laughing at yourself
The truth is, life’s hard, and it’s always going to be this way. There’s no changing the fact that life will leave you devastated, broken, and hopeless during the worst of situations. Life is going to test every ounce of strength and resilience you have if you have the guts to keep moving forward or […]
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When You Love Someone, You Never Stop Putting In Effort
When you love someone, you don’t let the romance fade away. You don’t treat them like your princess during the puppy love stage and then neglect them once they are yours to keep. You don’t take them for granted. You don’t forget how lucky you are to have them. When you love someone, you should […]
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Lost Friends!
It used to be so much easier, didn’t it? The days where we were all in the same place. The times we took for granted, back when we never imagined we would spend more time apart than together. We may have realistically known that things would change, but that felt so far away. Like it […]
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This is what relationships are these days!
(I know this is gonna be a lil lengthy, but do stay until the end!) We don’t commit now. We don’t see the point. They’ve always said there are so many fish in the sea, but never before has that sea of fish been right at our fingertips on OkCupid, Tinder, Grindr, Dattch, Chatous take your […]
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My one & only who wasn’t the one!
They say that if a man is not ready for commitment, even if you bring him all the ladies in the world and hand it to him on a silver platter, he still will not commit. They also say that if a man really values you and doesn’t want to lose you, he will do […]
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Getting a closure!
The truth about the closure you didn’t get is that you actually got it. No closure is somehow closure. We don’t really fall for someone thinking about how things will end – but we always hope that the ending will be clear and painless. The recent trend is that people end things without closure; they […]
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I miss you… … … But I deserve to move on!
A month has passed since the last time we talked. I remember that day like it was yesterday. I remember how hard I cried because this time, I knew our farewell was real. I knew that after that day, we wouldn’t talk again, and because of that, I saved the last voice message you sent, the one […]
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Friends : The best lessons one can learn
There are many different kinds of friends you’ll make throughout your life. Each type of friend will ultimately teach you something about yourself and help you grow into the individual you want to become. Each friendship will inspire you, hurt you and teach you in some way. You should be grateful for each type of […]
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Dealing with another pandemic in this pandemic
Heartbreaks are emotionally traumatic, and it could feel like the end of the world. Normally, there are a lot of coping methods at your disposal after a breakup, but being heartbroken amid the COVID-19 pandemic makes a heartbreak that much harder, especially since it does feel like it is the end of the world. Due […]
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Maybe I’m a bad guy
I don’t pay attention to what I say before I say it. It comes out without a thought, almost like that scene in Mean Girls where they call it “word vomit.” It happens more than I’m comfortable admitting. I know that I don’t choose the correct words and I don’t always know the right thing to say. […]
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Having mental illness doesn’t make you different, it make you special
This one is for everyone trying their best to heal from things they don’t speak about. This one is for those fighting their battles in silence, no matter the reason. For every blog I have published and every demon I have faced, I still sit in silence trying to fight the good fight, trying to […]
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Once a love, now a memory
When you love someone, you start to notice things. The way their fingers curl around yours and soften as they fall asleep next to you. How, when they smile, wrinkles form and crease around their eyes. The softness of their voice in the morning, how they hum and the world goes quiet. Then, one day, […]
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Heart vs Mind
Sometimes, your body speaks to you before you even know what it’s trying to say. Sometimes, you find yourself standing in front of an opportunity unable to take a step forward. Sometimes, you meet the perfect person and yet cannot bring yourself to commit to them fully. Sometimes, you find yourself withdrawing from a particular […]
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An honest blog about me!
A few days back, a certain someone prompted me to write about who I am and how not many people know me!I have a reach of 200,000 + views, some 2500 visitors.Out of these 2500 visitors, let’s say 1200 odd know the name Dhaval Desai.Only 10 odd people out of 2500 visitors know the real […]
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How can someone actually drive you crazy?
In life, we come across many people who embody everything we do not want to be. Given that most people are generally predisposed to be kind and considerate, the time at which we cross paths with the people who drive us insane is often tainted by a circumstance that brings out the worst in them. […]
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Why doesn’t she get attached?
She doesn’t get attached because she simply learned that attachment is the root of all evil. It makes her cling to things she should release. It makes her chase people that are wrong for her. It makes her go after things that are probably not meant for her. It clouds her logic and her judgment […]
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Suspense
We live in a society based on instant gratification. Hungry? A microwave will have you eating in minutes. Getting your dream car is a simple matter of signing up for debt. And months of pining for a perfumed reply from your true love is replaced by a simple click on send/receive. Life has become convenient, […]
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Back Away!
Sometimes we lose the love of our life. And our world breaks. We lose hope. We become depressed. We lose a sense of ourselves. We lose hope and dreams of the future. And worst of all, we have to start over. We’re left picking up the pieces of our lives. The ones they left behind. […]
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Be Who You Want To Be!
It’s crazy how we allow ourselves to so easily forget how lucky we are, even in the simplest of forms. We lose ourselves among that everyday chaos and impatient rush between the briefest of moments to the next, and we so effortlessly take everything we have and are for granted. We forget about all of […]
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